Apply These 3 Secret Techniques To Improve Remote Learning And Parenting

Ahmed Bule
3 min readNov 3, 2020

It was a rough summer, and schools had just started for millions of kids throughout the US.

Before Covid, parents would prepare school year weeks in advance. They buy clothes, check out their child’s school, and meet with the teacher.

What a good way to end the summer break!

I remember when I was in middle school, and I loved the first week of school.

I would check out my friend’s new shoes and how we all teased each other. We laughed around the hallways and shared our summer highlights. Our parents would drop us off in the morning and never had to worry about anything school-related.

All of that changed due to Covid, and parents have to work double shifts now.

I am not a parent yet, but I have friends and colleagues who are frustrated with distance learning. They have to routinely check if their kid is paying attention or taking a nap.

It is a hard job, and with the tips that I would provide, I hope that it gets easier for them.

Check-in with them at the beginning and end of the day.

Remote learning is tough, but it is a new skill that every student and adult is struggling with. Heck, I have a hard time paying attention in one hour meetings.

At the beginning of the day, ask your child:

  • How can I help you?
  • What assignments/tests do you have today?
  • How would you prioritize your time today?

At the end of the day, ask your child:

  • What did you find interesting in ______ (insert the class)?
  • How can we improve tomorrow?

By asking open-ended questions at the beginning of the day, your child will be excited and feel motivated to succeed.

Set up expectations and routines

When students have expectations and routines, they are more likely to succeed and enjoy learning. Habits are what defines all of us. Make sure your child makes his or her bed and gets ready for school.

I know they might be able to sleep in for an hour or two, but keep routines for digital devices and sleep hours. As they say, “Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise”.

Encourage physical activity:

Right now, everyone is going through tough times, and there is a great deal of anxiety. As adults, we had to adjust our normal routines and make sure we are meeting our child’s expectations. Treat challenges as opportunities and know that tough times never last, but tough people do.

A few times a week, take your child to the park and exercise together. Set new fitness goals and make sure you have a weekly checklist. We spend eight to ten hours a day indoors, and that can weaken our immune system. Play video games with them and make sure that they are staying healthy.

I hope that you found this article useful and engaging. Stay safe and enjoy the last couple of weeks of fall before the winter arrives.

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Ahmed Bule

Software EngineerI Passionately writing in the areas of productivity, business, life, and entrepreneurship.